Are you ready for a serious relationship? Are you prepared to be in love or better yet the worst- getting hurt? I too had already experienced all of that and i tell you its not easy. I almost lost my job because of depression, stress and all the crazy things you can think of. Relationship is tough. You should know your limitations first and be prepared for the worst that would happen. Believe it or not these are the things I did before I was with the right person. It may take awhile for your prince or princess to come but you just have to be patient about it. Here are the things I have done so far.
- You should know what you want in a person. What I mean is before you proceed entering to a serious relationship you should know what qualities you attracted the most and not just physically but also mentally. Many of us doesn't know yet what we really like. You must decide what you want and why you want them. For example, if you really want a handsome or attractive guy make sure you know what his characteristics are. Make sure you know what you're aiming at, make sure its TRUE LOVE. Its very hard to find serious relationship this days thats why we all must be aware of the consequences that could happen. Don't think about yourself here. Think about both of you what could happen in the future cause you might not know what might happen.
- Make a list of the characteristics of the person you want. Write down what you like in a person and why you like it. Both physically and mentally.
- Pray to GOD. I know this is too religious but it did happen to me though. I was desperate but I never lose hope. I tried praying or asking for it and it did happen. I was happy and most especially contented.
- Have faith. Believe on what you ask for. Make sure you believe when you ask for it. There was once a preacher who doesn't really believe in GOD, he only did it for money. So, a kid who really believed in him approached him. The preacher touched the kid's knee and so the poor kid who was very religious and believed in walked in front of him and that make the priest shocked. Everyone was amazed that they want be healed by that preacher without knowing it was the kid's faith who healed him. There was no magic involved, it was just the faith of that kid who healed or cured him. So, if you're really cant wait for your prince charming or your princess to come just do these steps cause you never know.
- Be prepared. Prepare for what you ask for cause you will never know what you bump into. Do not be selfish about everything. There should be giving and receiving in a relationship. Be supportive and I tell you it will really strengthen your relationship.
- Make a move. Now that you have read all these make sure you make an effort to make a move or an effort to take action. Do not just rely everything to GOD. Yes, GOD is compassionate but you must take action for it. If you wish to have a healthy relationship start by giving up the bad habits you have. And start a healthy lifestyle that will really help building a healthy yet happy relationship.
