Thursday, December 18, 2008

10 reasons why men cheat


Unfaithful men seems to be everywhere this days. Lucky for those couples who reached 25 or 50 years without cheating. Men this days cannot be trusted that is my stand point. They seem to be everywhere even married or unmarried. I am not saying that I don't trust my husband, I'm just cautious on things. Infidelity touches all types of people, rich or poor. Long-term relationship is difficult for most men, even those that aren’t far away from their partners.

"According to a poll conducted by WomanSavers, Will Smith and Jada Pinkett-Smith have the strongest Hollywood marriage. In another WomanSaver’s relationship poll of over 143,806 women of over 143,806 women, 10 percent (15,693) had never caught their partner cheating, 35 percent (50,403) suspected their partner but never caught him, and 54 percent (77,710) caught their partner cheating red handed."

So, why is your mean cheating on you? They already know its wrong but still they do it. Was it you or was it just in their genes already? If two people really love each other or want to be with each other they should have the strength to fight the temptations around them.

Here are 10 reasons why men cheat:
  1. NAG. All men or most men wants to get away with a noisy partner who keeps on talking without directions. Men doesn't want that. They also need peace and quiet sometimes.
  2. THEY HAVE FALLEN OUT OF LOVE. Most men are so comfortable with their relationships and that that don't know how to get out especially married men. Some are only staying because of the children. Some married men have excuses like they want space cause they don't know where is this going or they want a normal life as before.
  3. YOU ARGUE A LOT. Arguing with someone especially if there is something important to talk about is normal. But not most of the time. So, if you feel like you and your partner argue a lot then you have to do something about it. Best thing to do is work things out. No need for both of you to quarrel all the time. Why don't both of you talk things over. Right?
  4. SEX LIFE STINKS. "Honey not tonight! Im tired. This is very common to every couple especially if your partner do not see you as sexual anymore. Sex is good but there are some point i our lives where losing interest when it comes to sex. Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.
  5. REVENGE. If your boyfriend or husband caught you cheating, that is the reason why they want to have revenge. How is he suppose to heal those hurt feelings but through sex with another person right?
  6. WANT TO TRY DIFFERENT THINGS OR EXCITING THINGS. Men usually are fed up coming home with the same meal for dinner. They want to try other things or different things that excite them.
  7. FINANCIAL CRISIS. Most men are having problems with financial especially the husbands. They dont know what to do with the bills in the house thats why they leave their wives. So, if you are a stay home mom, why dont you look for a job or better yet think of something that will solve the financial crisis in your house?
  8. LOSING INTEREST. Most men doesnt seem to see their partner as beautiful anymore that's why they lost interest and tend to leave them because of many years of seeing each other. Most of them are more attractive to other opposite sex because they want to explore or try different things in life. That is how selfish, self-centered most men are. Im not saying all men but most men are like that.
  9. EMOTIONAL DISSATISFACTION. Men cheats because they feel like they are not appreciated anymore. Men sometimes want to be acknowledge at times especially when there is something to be acknowledge about. So, if you feel like you relationship with your partner is going down, you should think about the things you need to make up with your partner.
  10. MISUNDERSTANDING. Every couple have their own likes and dislikes. That is the reason why most men leave their partners because they dont understand each other anymore. They seem to have different views in life. And most men, men who are selfish often leave their partners because of that reason.
Men have different reasons why they cheat. That is why women doesn't get the idea or confuse why men do it. Even if they know it is all wrong to CHEAT! What goes around comes around.
"karma is a bitch"!