My life as an expecting mom

When I was still not expecting a baby my life was normal. I was active and always want to do stuff on my own . I want to get busy and just act normal. But now that Im expecting a baby, life for me is not the same as before. Im always tired and get easily pissed off or agitated. I have always like perfumes and colognes before, but now I really dont like the smell. I have always ask my husband to minimize putting on some roll-ons because it gives me a terrible migraine.

Being pregnant is not that easy. You have to sacrifice your habits before for the sake of the baby. My pregnancy is pretty normal. I have no crave for food, but I cannot control my eating habits now. I have gained 5 extra lbs for always eating. And my doctor said that I will minimize food that contains carbohydrates like rice, bread, crackers and more. But to tell you the truth I really love to eat nowadays.

I dont know how to control my eating, all I know is what I eat is good for my baby. I always eat healthy food like vegetables and fruits and juice for vitamin C. I drink milk every morning and right after I go to sleep. I take my vitamins every morning and lunch religiously.

Im not thinking about myself here cause I really want my baby to be healthy. I can always have my diet or go to the gym right after giving birth. My husband always say that I look prettier everyday. I know why he is saying that because he dont want me to get depressed or stressed out of the way I look.

What I noticed this days or this months is I just want to get to sleep, rest, watch TV, and play games on my husbands PC. This is not a normal life for me now but what Im doing now is for my baby. I want him to grow up healthy and groomed.

I dont want to be like other moms who neglected their baby and just think of themselves go shopping without knowing that the have a baby at home. As much as possible I want to raise my baby on my own. I dont want any babysitter in my house. I dont want anyone touching my baby except my own family.

My husband said that I can always be a stay home mom and just take good care of our children but what Im worried about are all the expenses in the house. My husband is a very good provider. And I can see him as a father, that is why GOD gave us this blessing cause HE knows that we will take good care of this baby like how we took good care of our love for each other.
I really cant believe that Im gonna be a mom.

Can I really take good care of this baby? I really dont like kids to tell you the truth. Kids for me are irritating, dirty and noisy. That is why Im really trying my best to be a good mom. Im the only child of the family, I didnt experienced life with siblings. My everyday life before was just me, myself and I. Funny but its true. I never experienced carrying a baby or taking good care of a baby.

10 reasons why men cheat

Unfaithful men seems to be everywhere this days. Lucky for those couples who reached 25 or 50 years without cheating. Men this days cannot be trusted that is my stand point. They seem to be everywhere even married or unmarried. I am not saying that I don't trust my husband, I'm just cautious on things. Infidelity touches all types of people, rich or poor. Long-term relationship is difficult for most men, even those that aren’t far away from their partners.

"According to a poll conducted by WomanSavers, Will Smith and Jada Pinkett-Smith have the strongest Hollywood marriage. In another WomanSaver’s relationship poll of over 143,806 women of over 143,806 women, 10 percent (15,693) had never caught their partner cheating, 35 percent (50,403) suspected their partner but never caught him, and 54 percent (77,710) caught their partner cheating red handed."

So, why is your mean cheating on you? They already know its wrong but still they do it. Was it you or was it just in their genes already? If two people really love each other or want to be with each other they should have the strength to fight the temptations around them.

Here are 10 reasons why men cheat:

1. NAG. All men or most men wants to get away with a noisy partner who keeps on talking without directions. Men doesn't want that. They also need peace and quiet sometimes.
2. THEY HAVE FALLEN OUT OF LOVE. Most men are so comfortable with their relationships and that that don't know how to get out especially married men. Some are only staying because of the children. Some married men have excuses like they want space cause they don't know where is this going or they want a normal life as before.
   
3. YOU ARGUE A LOT. Arguing with someone especially if there is something important to talk about is normal. But not most of the time. So, if you feel like you and your partner argue a lot then you have to do something about it. Best thing to do is work things out. No need for both of you to quarrel all the time. Why don't both of you talk things over. Right?
4. SEX LIFE STINKS. "Honey not tonight! Im tired. This is very common to every couple especially if your partner do not see you as sexual anymore. Sex is good but there are some point i our lives where losing interest when it comes to sex. Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.
5. REVENGE. If your boyfriend or husband caught you cheating, that is the reason why they want to have revenge. How is he suppose to heal those hurt feelings but through sex with another person right?
6. WANT TO TRY DIFFERENT THINGS OR EXCITING THINGS. Men usually are fed up coming home with the same meal for dinner. They want to try other things or different things that excite them.
   
7. FINANCIAL CRISIS. Most men are having problems with financial especially the husbands. They dont know what to do with the bills in the house thats why they leave their wives. So, if you are a stay home mom, why dont you look for a job or better yet think of something that will solve the financial crisis in your house?
8. LOSING INTEREST. Most men doesnt seem to see their partner as beautiful anymore that's why they lost interest and tend to leave them because of many years of seeing each other. Most of them are more attractive to other opposite sex because they want to explore or try different things in life. That is how selfish, self-centered most men are. Im not saying all men but most men are like that.
9. EMOTIONAL DISSATISFACTION. Men cheats because they feel like they are not appreciated anymore. Men sometimes want to be acknowledge at times especially when there is something to be acknowledge about. So, if you feel like you relationship with your partner is going down, you should think about the things you need to make up with your partner.
   
10. MISUNDERSTANDING. Every couple have their own likes and dislikes. That is the reason why most men leave their partners because they dont understand each other anymore. They seem to have different views in life. And most men, men who are selfish often leave their partners because of that reason.

Men have different reasons why they cheat. That is why women doesn't get the idea or confuse why men do it. Even if they know it is all wrong to CHEAT! What goes around comes around.
"karma is a bitch"!

How to start a healthy relationship

Are you ready for a serious relationship? Are you prepared to be in love or better yet the worst- getting hurt? I too had already experienced all of that and i tell you its not easy. I almost lost my job because of depression, stress and all the crazy things you can think of. Relationship is tough. You should know your limitations first and be prepared for the worst that would happen. Believe it or not these are the things I did before I was with the right person. It may take awhile for your prince or princess to come but you just have to be patient about it. Here are the things I have done so far.

• You should know what you want in a person. What I mean is before you proceed entering to a serious relationship you should know what qualities you attracted the most and not just physically but also mentally. Many of us doesn't know yet what we really like. You must decide what you want and why you want them. For example, if you really want a handsome or attractive guy make sure you know what his characteristics are. Make sure you know what you're aiming at, make sure its TRUE LOVE. Its very hard to find serious relationship this days thats why we all must be aware of the consequences that could happen. Don't think about yourself here. Think about both of you what could happen in the future cause you might not know what might happen.

• Make a list of the characteristics of the person you want. Write down what you like in a person and why you like it. Both physically and mentally.

• Pray to GOD. I know this is too religious but it did happen to me though. I was desperate but I never lose hope. I tried praying or asking for it and it did happen. I was happy and most especially contented.

• Have faith. Believe on what you ask for. Make sure you believe when you ask for it. There was once a preacher who doesn't really believe in GOD, he only did it for money. So, a kid who really believed in him approached him. The preacher touched the kid's knee and so the poor kid who was very religious and believed in walked in front of him and that make the priest shocked. Everyone was amazed that they want be healed by that preacher without knowing it was the kid's faith who healed him. There was no magic involved, it was just the faith of that kid who healed or cured him. So, if you're really cant wait for your prince charming or your princess to come just do these steps cause you never know.

• Be prepared. Prepare for what you ask for cause you will never know what you bump into. Do not be selfish about everything. There should be giving and receiving in a relationship. Be supportive and I tell you it will really strengthen your relationship.

• Make a move. Now that you have read all these make sure you make an effort to make a move or an effort to take action. Do not just rely everything to GOD. Yes, GOD is compassionate but you must take action for it. If you wish to have a healthy relationship start by giving up the bad habits you have. And start a healthy lifestyle that will really help building a healthy yet happy relationship.